So I know , quite sure you have not written next page of your diary. I am with you, don't worry :-) but we will write it now or as soon as possible.
This happens in life , we often don't start many things perceiving them to be difficult. And at last when we start , we often do not follow up. And Diary writing is not difficult , so here is issue of following up our good deeds, maintaining continuity and consistency , developing a new and better habit.
It is also we behave quite ' generally' and neglect minute details , refer them as unimportant things , yes sometimes our judgement is right in this regard , we cannot take too much of a burden. But it is sometimes, many times that is not the case. Small, small things pile up and later have an aggregate. It is so that we wonder why this happens to us or we curse about destiny. And our friends and relatives also fail to understand as apparently there are no reasons to our underachievement . Well, they are not observing us constantly. You are the only person who can do that.
Also only you know 'what were' and what are the odds , but the world is judgemental , maybe you are not any better if you were in their shoes. And ultimately it's your responsibilty that you could not get past the circumstances and why so , you probably don't know but these small small neglected things form cumulative effect. They maybe some habits , even good habits formed due to certain way of conditioning can at times be obstacles in the path, of course if you don't lose heart that can become stepping stone as well. Maybe if I give examples here there will be more clarity , but it's our individual journey and each one have different examples and we should be open enough not to play premeditative heave or slog and judge the delivery based on its merit.To stretch this anology further you can play safe most of the time but you have to take calculated risks as asking rate can be high. But that is the case when you are chasing. And what are you chasing in your life? Peers , no , see them on equal footing , if you are honest in your own ways you should not have inferiority complex . Nor should you have superiority complex, that will be fool's Paradise :-). Then Happiness , well that is state of mind and you can achieve that , but is that so simple , yes you can get into that mood but for consistency you need to ponder what is missing in your life right now and you know how to get it or get back it, so minute details then become all the more significant. If you are chasing money , don't rush you may slip and avoid free lunches even if that may be tasty , because they have hidden price tag of expectations and you know expectations can be so impractical as well. And during all this journey people are imperfect , forgive them , of course slap them once in a while if it's too much :-) , they also need that for their development ! But ensure you are stronger there or else agile enough :-)
So next week try weiting at least twice a week your own diary , and next to next 4-5 days a week and then regularly. Well if you play challenges or 'dare' games then you can be regular from the onset, have some friendly mild punishment for not attending the required task. I don't know whether I will write next page today , sunday here. As it's time to sleep now and before sleeping have some another tasks. And more importantly in the morning we are going to visit caves. Verul caves also known in anglicised language as Ellora caves. But we should recognize by what is original term , why should we persist with the terms that exist just because some foreigners could not pronunciate it correctly, it is they ahould learn proper pronunciation and now they are no more colonizers also , so learn swiftly. And 8t is in no way anti -liberal. Of course more about it later, reaisting my temptation here :-)
And also there is cricket match in the evening . And everybody likes a good contest. But I want complete domination by India. When Australia was on top in the game , remember how they dominated game of cricket. It's upto another team if they raise their game then that will be good contest automatically. We should always go for the best and complete domination , so I need to be very perfect :-) Also happy that being integral unit of India , I understood this correlation if I work hard enough India wins , and it's no more a superstition.
Stay tuned , Stay positive!!
This happens in life , we often don't start many things perceiving them to be difficult. And at last when we start , we often do not follow up. And Diary writing is not difficult , so here is issue of following up our good deeds, maintaining continuity and consistency , developing a new and better habit.
It is also we behave quite ' generally' and neglect minute details , refer them as unimportant things , yes sometimes our judgement is right in this regard , we cannot take too much of a burden. But it is sometimes, many times that is not the case. Small, small things pile up and later have an aggregate. It is so that we wonder why this happens to us or we curse about destiny. And our friends and relatives also fail to understand as apparently there are no reasons to our underachievement . Well, they are not observing us constantly. You are the only person who can do that.
Also only you know 'what were' and what are the odds , but the world is judgemental , maybe you are not any better if you were in their shoes. And ultimately it's your responsibilty that you could not get past the circumstances and why so , you probably don't know but these small small neglected things form cumulative effect. They maybe some habits , even good habits formed due to certain way of conditioning can at times be obstacles in the path, of course if you don't lose heart that can become stepping stone as well. Maybe if I give examples here there will be more clarity , but it's our individual journey and each one have different examples and we should be open enough not to play premeditative heave or slog and judge the delivery based on its merit.To stretch this anology further you can play safe most of the time but you have to take calculated risks as asking rate can be high. But that is the case when you are chasing. And what are you chasing in your life? Peers , no , see them on equal footing , if you are honest in your own ways you should not have inferiority complex . Nor should you have superiority complex, that will be fool's Paradise :-). Then Happiness , well that is state of mind and you can achieve that , but is that so simple , yes you can get into that mood but for consistency you need to ponder what is missing in your life right now and you know how to get it or get back it, so minute details then become all the more significant. If you are chasing money , don't rush you may slip and avoid free lunches even if that may be tasty , because they have hidden price tag of expectations and you know expectations can be so impractical as well. And during all this journey people are imperfect , forgive them , of course slap them once in a while if it's too much :-) , they also need that for their development ! But ensure you are stronger there or else agile enough :-)
So next week try weiting at least twice a week your own diary , and next to next 4-5 days a week and then regularly. Well if you play challenges or 'dare' games then you can be regular from the onset, have some friendly mild punishment for not attending the required task. I don't know whether I will write next page today , sunday here. As it's time to sleep now and before sleeping have some another tasks. And more importantly in the morning we are going to visit caves. Verul caves also known in anglicised language as Ellora caves. But we should recognize by what is original term , why should we persist with the terms that exist just because some foreigners could not pronunciate it correctly, it is they ahould learn proper pronunciation and now they are no more colonizers also , so learn swiftly. And 8t is in no way anti -liberal. Of course more about it later, reaisting my temptation here :-)
And also there is cricket match in the evening . And everybody likes a good contest. But I want complete domination by India. When Australia was on top in the game , remember how they dominated game of cricket. It's upto another team if they raise their game then that will be good contest automatically. We should always go for the best and complete domination , so I need to be very perfect :-) Also happy that being integral unit of India , I understood this correlation if I work hard enough India wins , and it's no more a superstition.
Stay tuned , Stay positive!!
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